The Sensory Savvy Momma Podcast | Nervous system-first strategies for moms raising sensory kids—with more calm, confidence, and connection.

Ep 31 // How to Stop Playing Whack-a-Mole with Sensory Needs: Moving from Reactive to Responsive Neuroaffirming Parenting

Hey Momma, 
 
Are you exhausted from trying “all the strategies” — swings, fidgets, weighted blankets — but nothing seems to stick?
Do meltdowns keep happening, even though you're doing your best to respond calmly and offer regulation tools?
Are you feeling lost trying to understand what’s really going on underneath your child’s challenging behaviors?
Ready to Collapse the Timeline on Your Child’s Sensory Support?
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In this episode, we pull back the curtain on sensory processing and why it's the root system of your child’s development — not just another behavioral checklist. You’ll hear:
Why traditional strategies (like calm-down corners or fidgets) might not be working the way you hoped
How to identify the true sensory needs that fuel behavior, instead of just reacting to outbursts
A breakdown of the Pyramid of Learning, showing how sensory systems influence emotional regulation, attention, and learning
Practical tips to start your own Sensory Observation Journal to decode your child’s unique neuro signature
A gentle reminder: this isn’t about fixing your child — it’s about supporting their nervous system to feel safe, connected, and capable
If this episode sparked clarity or gave you a new lens on your child’s needs, we’d love to hear from you.
🧭 Start your Sensory Observation Journal today – just a few days of tracking can offer game-changing insights
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Uncover your child’s unique sensory profile and finally get to the root of the behaviors. This isn’t about compliance — it’s about connection and capacity.
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Ep 30 // If You’re Handing Over Screens to Survive the Day… This Episode Is For You and Your Neurodivergent Little One

Screen Time Without Meltdowns: How to Create Calm, Smooth Transitions for Neurodivergent Kids
If screen time feels like a double-edged sword — lifesaving for your sanity but meltdown-inducing when it’s time to turn it off — you’re not alone.
In today’s episode of Sensory Savvy Mama, we’re talking about screens, sensory needs, and how to use technology intentionally without guilt, shame, or chaos.
This is not an anti-screen episode.
This is a compassion-first, nervous-system-first approach to using screens as a tool — especially for neurodivergent kids who feel safe, regulated, and predictable when they’re watching or playing.
 The Sensory Breakthrough (NOVEMBER ONLY) A low-demand, high-value personalized sensory insight report. No Zoom calls. No appointments. You answer two forms → I send you a custom sensory analysis of your child: strengths, challenges, and their unique neurosignature.
➡️ Grab your spot here (CLICK HERE)
In this episode you’ll learn: ✅ Why screens feel regulating for so many neurodivergent kids ✅ The real reason meltdowns happen when screen time ends ✅ How to set clear, respectful boundaries without power struggles ✅ What to do before, during, and after screen time to make transitions easier ✅ How to use screens intentionally — without mom guilt ✅ Why “just turning it off” almost always backfires ✅ What co-regulation and predictability have to do with screen-time peace
Whether you avoid screens like the plague or rely on them for survival (no judgment here), this episode gives you a grounded, sensory-smart plan for:
✨ fewer battles ✨ smoother transitions ✨ safer nervous systems (yours and your child’s) ✨ and a whole lot more connection
Links & Resources
 The Sensory Breakthrough (NOVEMBER ONLY) A low-demand, high-value personalized sensory insight report. No Zoom calls. No appointments. You answer two forms → I send you a custom sensory analysis of your child: strengths, challenges, and their unique neurosignature.
➡️ Grab your spot here (CLICK HERE)
The Clarity Lab The self-paced guide to understanding your child’s sensory system and building a nervous-system-first routine that fits your real life. ➡️ (link)

Ep 29 // Why Fidgets Aren’t Working (And What Actually Helps)

Ep 29 // Why Fidgets Aren’t Working (And What Actually Helps)
Do you feel like your child is constantly on the move, and no amount of sensory toys or fidgets seem to “work”?
Have you ever wondered why the tools that calm other kids don’t seem to help yours?
Are you stuck in a cycle of guessing what your sensory-seeking child actually needs to feel regulated?
In this episode, lets discuss one of the most common sensory misconceptions parents face: the belief that a fidget is a one-size-fits-all solution for sensory needs. Let’s gently unpacks why some children need far more than a handheld toy to regulate — especially when their nervous system is craving deep proprioceptive input.
You’ll learn how to start decoding your child’s unique sensory signature, why movement can be a need (not a behavior), and how to build a more supportive rhythm into your day — using simple tools, sensory awareness, and compassionate curiosity.
Whether you’re navigating meltdowns, pacing in the classroom, or that “I’ve tried everything” feeling, this episode offers clarity and relief.
Resources and Links
 Free Sensory Book List – Curated reading to support your parenting journey.
The Clarity Lab – A self-paced guide to understanding your child’s sensory systems + practical ways to support regulation.
 The Sensory Blueprint – 1:1 support to co-create a personalized sensory plan for your family.
📚 Related Episodes:
Ep 2 // It’s not bad behavior its a nervous system trying to cope
Ep 20 //Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn? Decoding Your Neurodivergent Child’s Stress Response
Want help decoding your child’s sensory world? Let’s collaborate! Whether you’re looking to better understand their behaviors, track daily patterns, or create a rhythm that truly supports their nervous system — you don’t have to figure it out alone.
🌱 And remember — the work you’re doing right now matters. You are the expert on your child, and your intuition is one of your greatest tools.

Ep 28 // When Rest Feels Impossible: Parenting Through Sensory Burnout

Ep 28 // When Rest Feels Impossible: Parenting Through Sensory Burnout
 
This episode is a permission slip to stop pushing through and start tuning in. You don’t have to earn your rest. You don’t have to do this alone. Please share this episode with a fellow mama who needs to hear this!
In today’s solo episode we dive into what self-care really means for moms raising neurodivergent children—especially when you're deep in the trenches. She shares vulnerably about her own experience of burnout, early motherhood, and the unraveling that came before realignment.
Rather than pushing through and performing wellness, Victoria guides you toward the real work: decoding your child’s sensory needs and tuning into your own. This episode explores the spin cycle of co-burnout, why traditional self-care advice often backfires, and how nervous system-first support for both you and your child is the path forward. You’ll also hear about the difference between sensory input and output (hello, praxis!), and why understanding this distinction can change your parenting game.
Here she also shares tools like the Neuro Signature quiz, the Clarity Lab, and her signature Sensory Blueprint process, all designed to help you shift from overwhelmed to empowered—without adding more to your plate.If this message hit home, I would love to hear from you. Send me a message, join the newsletter, or inquire about upcoming workshops. Most of all, know this: there is a way through, and it's not by fixing yourself—it's by honoring what you and your child actually need.
 
Part 3: Resources and Links
 Decode Your Child's Neuro Signature - Free Mini Course 
 The Clarity Lab – Nervous system-first parenting support
 Join the Newsletter – Stories, tools, and insights not shared on the podcast
 Explore the Sensory Blueprint – A custom 6-week plan to decode your child’s sensory needs
Related Episodes: 
Ep 21 // Attunement Over Perfection 
Ep 8 // My own Sensory Needs

Ep 27 // Advocating Without Burnout with Dr. Destiny Huff: Navigating Public Schools, Self-Regulation, and Support as a Neurodivergent Parent

Hey Momma,
Are you heading into IEP meetings feeling like you have to fight just to be heard—and wondering how to do it without falling apart? You’re not alone.
In this week’s episode of Sensory Savvy Mama, I’m joined by Dr. Destiny Huff—mental health therapist, late-diagnosed autistic/ADHD mom, and special education consultant. Together, we unpack what it really looks like to advocate for your child and support your own nervous system in the process.
We dive into:-How nervous system regulation changes the tone of IEP meetings
-What to look for in an advocate (and red flags to avoid)
-When advocating for your child leads to discovering your own neurodivergence
-Why the system often misses what’s happening at home—and how to speak up
-What burnout really looks like for parents in the IEP process
-How to show up with clarity and confidence, even in the face of school resistance
-The three biggest takeaways for any parent navigating school-based support
Destiny shares from both sides of the table—as a therapist, a parent, and an advocate who supports families across all 50 states. Whether you're in your first IEP meeting or your fifth, this conversation will remind you that you don’t have to do it alone.
✨ You deserve to feel empowered—not exhausted—when advocating for your child.
Resources + Next Steps 📲 Connect with Dr. Destiny Huff: Website or on IG @destinyhuff_iep_advocate 🧠 Related episode: Ep 23 // Seeing the Child, Not the Data ✨ Explore The Clarity Lab → Your DIY roadmap to decoding your child’s sensory needs 💌 Flip the Switch Newsletter → weekly calm & clarity straight to your inbox
💜 If this episode supported you, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review so more moms can find the tools they need.

Ep 26 // Compassionate Curiosity with Sam Marion: Rethinking Support, Sensory Needs, and Systemic Expectations for the Neurodiverse Family

Hey Momma,
Are meltdowns, sensory sensitivities, and daily battles leaving you exhausted? In this week’s episode of Sensory Savvy Mama, listen in to the conversation with our guest Sam Marion, LCSW—a neurodivergent therapist, parent, and advocate who specializes in supporting families raising autistic and ADHD children.
Together, we dive into:
Why parents are the true experts on their children’s needs
How small, simple sensory accommodations can make a big impact
The importance of neurodiversity-affirming care that embraces, rather than pathologizes, differences
How to recognize the supports you already use at home (and give yourself credit!)
The “mixing board” metaphor for understanding sensory needs as dynamic, not fixed
Why schools often feel like a sensory minefield—and how to advocate for your child within rigid systems
Generational reconditioning: how late-diagnosed parents can give their children the support they never had
Sam shares from both his professional expertise and lived experience as a neurodivergent adult. You’ll walk away with practical strategies, fresh insights, and renewed confidence in your role as your child’s strongest advocate.
Whether you’re new to exploring neurodivergence or already on the journey, this episode will help you feel less alone and more empowered.
 
If you loved this conversation, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review Sensory Savvy Mama so more moms can find the hope and strategies they need.
Resources + Next Steps:
💡 Flip the Switch Newsletter – Weekly sensory strategies and regulation tools, straight to your inbox. 
Explore the Clarity Lab → your $9 DIY guide to decoding your child’s sensory system 
📲 Connect with Sam Marion + Instagram: @sammarioncounseling

Ep 25 // Honoring Natural & Multilingual Communication with Amanda & Paulina of Natural Communication

Hey Momma,
Does your child speak in movie lines, repeat certain phrases, or rely on routines in a way that leaves you unsure how to support their communication?
Are you navigating multiple languages in your home and wondering if that’s “too much” for your neurodivergent child?
Have you ever felt like your child’s sensory needs and communication struggles are speaking a language you just don’t understand yet?
Today’s conversation is with Amanda and Paulina of Natural Communication, two neurodiversity-affirming, multilingual Speech‑Language Pathologists and co-founders of Natural Communication on a mission to bring neuro-affirming communication tools to multilingual families around the globe. Together, they explore:
What Gestalt Language Development actually means—and why scripting, delayed echolalia, and character voices are valid, meaningful communication.
The link between sensory regulation and a child’s ability to access and express language—and how OT and SLP collaboration can unlock breakthroughs.
Why multimodal, multilingual communication is not only okay—but essential for honoring identity, culture, and connection.
How parents can stop second-guessing and start trusting the communication they’re already seeing and supporting at home.
Why honoring your child’s natural communication style—no matter how different it looks—is the foundation of safety and belonging.
Visit Amanda & Paulina at Natural Communication or on IG @naturalcommunication 
 👉 Grab The Clarity Lab — a calming, mom-friendly starter pack that helps you decode your child’s sensory meltdowns and build confidence in less than 10 minutes.
Inside you’ll get:
A 2-min flowchart to spot sensory triggers
A short audio to shift how you see meltdowns (not as misbehavior—but as messages)
A PDF guide to 5 subtle sensory signs most moms miss
✨ Only $9. Instant access. No login required. 🔗 Get The Clarity Lab Now
You're already the expert on your child. The Clarity Lab just helps you see it clearly.
 

Ep 24 // I Might Be the Chaos: Unmasking, Meltdowns & Mothering as a Neurodivergent Mom and Chaos Coach Isabeau Korylak

What if it’s not your child that’s dysregulated—but the system you’re trying to function inside?
In this episode, Victoria is joined by neurodivergent mother, and community voice, Isabeau, for a no-holding-back conversation about the invisible work of raising high-needs, neurodivergent kids while slowly unmasking your own identity.
Together they explore what it looks like to parent outside of urgency, honor emotional truth without fear, and find micro-moments of peace in the middle of what often feels like chaos.
Whether you’re deep in co-regulation, learning to step out of survival mode, or holding the tension of being both soft and strong at once—this episode will feel like a deep breath and a nervous system hug.
🔍 In This Episode, We Talk About:
The moment you realize you might be the chaos
What masking really looks like in neurodivergent motherhood
How to protect your peace without abandoning your child
Why urgency is not regulation
Creating connection before compliance (especially in school mornings)
Teaching resilience through softness—not stress
What it looks like when your child starts self-advocating better than you were ever allowed to
Why growth doesn’t have to mean constant change
💬 Favorite Quotes:
“I just want to pause time and melt down in peace... and then pick it all back up like nothing happened.”
“My daughter is regulated because I’ve built a life around her nervous system. But the cost of that? Is mine.”
“You are allowed to be mad. You're just not allowed to be mean. And you know what? She gets it.”
🧠 Perfect For You If:
You’re a neurodivergent mom raising a high-needs child
You’re stuck between knowing what to do and having the capacity to do it
You're navigating emotional dysregulation, sensory needs, or burnout
You want to raise a child who self-advocates without apology
You’re craving conversation that skips the small talk and goes right to the soul
🔎 Find Isabeau on IG @neurofriendlybeau💡 Subscribe to Flip the Switch — our weekly love note with sensory tips, co-regulation strategies, and honest reflections to help you feel more anchored in your parenting. Join here
🌀 Start with the Clarity Lab — Your first step to understanding your child’s (and your own) nervous system blueprint. Learn more
🤍 Need deeper support? Let’s talk. If you’re feeling overwhelmed and want to explore if 1:1 support could help, book a free clarity call. No pressure—just presence.

Ep 23 // Seeing the Child, Not the Data — Reframing the IEP Process with Humanity and Curiosity for our Neurodivergent Children with Lisa Baskin Wright

Hey Momma,
In this fiery conversation our guest is Lisa Baskin Wright, a mom, advocate, and coach who has lived the IEP struggle firsthand and now helps families navigate it with more clarity and less fear. Together they pull back the curtain on the systemic barriers parents face—and the micro-shifts that bring humanity back into the process.
From the myth of the “perfectly regulated” child to the harm caused when schools ignore sensory needs, this episode validates your lived experience and offers a powerful reframe: What if advocacy could be curious, collaborative, and centered on your child’s full humanity?
You’ll walk away with:
Language to invite curiosity, not confrontation
A deeper understanding of how sensory needs show up—and get missed—in school settings
One micro-shift that changes the IEP dynamic: leading with trust and shared humanity
Key Moments:
(00:00) Lisa’s story: from privilege and connections to six NDAs and burnout
(09:15) The gaslighting cycle: “We don’t see it at school”
(18:30) The harm of not being seen—invisible stress vs. externalized “naughty” child
(29:10) Why sensory needs are overlooked in schools (and why it matters)
(41:45) Teachers, shame, and the myth of the “good” classroom
(55:00) The micro-shift: reframing resistance into compassionate curiosity
Resources + Next Steps:
💡 Flip the Switch Newsletter – Nervous system tools and sensory strategies to anchor you through hard seasons. [Subscribe here]
💫 Ready to decode your child’s behaviors through the sensory system?Start with The Clarity Lab—a short, self-paced workshop designed to help you understand why your child reacts the way they do, and how to support them without overwhelm. Just $9 for Summer 2025   👉 Grab The Clarity Lab
🌟 Connect with Lisa – Explore her coaching community, 1:1 support, and resources for navigating IEPs with more clarity.  https://www.lisabaskinwright.com/  @lisabaskinwright

Ep 22 // Rewriting the Script — Moving from Shame to Self-Trust in Neurodivergent Parenting

Hey Momma,
Ever feel like you’re constantly defending your parenting decisions—at family events, IEP meetings, even in your own head? Like you’re doing everything you can, and still wondering, why is this so hard?
You’re not alone—and you’re not doing it wrong. In this episode, we unpack the invisible weight of shame many moms carry when raising a neurodivergent child, especially when behaviors don’t “look” like a disability to the outside world. Let's pause, breathe, and begin to rewrite that story—from survival mode to self-trust.
What We’re Chatting About Today:
We’ll explore:
Why your child’s behavior isn’t a reflection of your worth as a parent
How to recognize your own sensory needs—and why honoring them matters
What co-regulation actually looks like when you’re both tapped out
A small but mighty shift: carving out five intentional minutes to reset your nervous system
This episode is a blend of raw truth, regulation wisdom, and soft encouragement to make your needs part of the plan—not an afterthought.
Key Moments:
(00:00) Reclaiming your narrative as a neurodivergent mama
(04:15) The invisible cost of public meltdowns, IEP meetings, and unspoken expectations
(07:30) What one mom discovered through sensory blueprinting—and how everything shifted
(11:20) This week’s micro-invitation: 5 minutes of regulation, just for you
Resources + Next Steps:
📚 Watch the Free Pyramid of Learning Training to see how sensory processing forms the foundation for everything from emotional regulation to everyday tasks. It’s the must-know framework every sensory-savvy parent should have in their toolbox.
💌 Subscribe to Flip the Switch — Our weekly love note full of nervous system tools, sensory strategies, and soft reminders that you're doing a good job.
 Start with the Clarity Lab — A self-paced course to help you decode your nervous system and your child’s sensory needs, all from a place of compassion. Just $9!?!
✨ The Sensory Blueprint helps you decode your child’s unique sensory patterns so you can stop second-guessing and start creating rhythms that work. It’s collaborative, compassionate, and completely customized for your family.